Originally a scholarship soccer recruit from Long Island, started with women's lacrosse when it was still a club sport. She put big numbers in the record books for both teams. In soccer, Graham graduated with the lowest career goals against average (2.02) in team history, serving as starting goalkeeper for four years. Team captain, she also ranked 19^th nationally in Division I with eight saves per game in 1998. Graham brought those skills to the sidelines, acting as assistant coach for the women's soccer team upon graduation.

Serving as captain of the lacrosse team for three years, Graham ranked second in assists while also standing first with 261 career points. In 1997, she finished second in the nation in goals per game with 4.31. As a senior, Graham earned the MAAC Player of the Year award. She was also a MAAC All Academic honoree.